Sunday, December 20, 2009

Starving for Attention

There's an old 80's hair band ballad called "Don't Know What You Got Til It's Gone." Suzanne and I spent most of the day pondering this statement in what turned out to be several emotional hours for both of us.

It all started around 7PM last night. George came inside after spending several hours out. He had clearly been rattled by something. And frankly, he was so shaken it was simply hard to get him inside. As soon as he'd come in, he'd want to go back out. Our guess was that he had confronted--or been confronted--by something and had become disoriented. After a brief bite to eat, George went back out. I turned the lights out on him several hours later as he was curled up atop the flower pot on our front porch. It is not unusual for us to leave him out overnight. In fact, it's our preference as we've always had more trouble with him going a full night without waking us up as opposed to Jacob doing it.

What was unusual was that he wasn't waiting at the door this morning for his breakfast. At 15 pounds, George has never missed a meal. He was absent and I immediately suspected something was up based on his mood the night before. Pretty quickly, I got dressed and went looking for him, walking our area of the neighborhood a couple of times and then driving the further distances (our subdivision has 1,500 houses!). By lunch, Suzanne and I made the decision to put up signs in the neighborhood. Both of us were convinced that he was dead, either by eating something poisonous which would've described his odd behavior or he'd lost the battle with whatever was stalking him. Nevertheless, we hoped someone might see him and call us.

By 4PM, we still hadn't seen any sign of him. Frankly, I was looking out every 10 seconds hoping I was wrong. Suzanne and I had each shed tears through the day. Obviously, he gets the brunt of our frustration more and more these days. I decided to walk the neighborhood once more looking for him. It was about to get dark and if he were hurt in a bush or ditch somewhere (Suzanne's theory), this may be my last chance to find him before the potential freeze came and finished him off. I walked for about 30 minutes. I did once encounter an orange cat hiding in a bush, believe it or not. It looked very little like George but I literally stood in place for what seemed like a minute calling him George, knowing it was not him. My trek had ended and George was again nowhere to be found. I walked back home and up the driveway. Lo and behold, George was sitting in the driveway staring at me. I could not believe it. I swooped him up for Suzanne to see. She couldn't believe it either. He is still acting somewhat strange and we are monitoring him, while being thankful he's again with our family.

I honestly did not think losing a cat (I've never been fond of cats) would have an impact on me. After reflection, I realized that George was our "child" for seven years basically and was always there for us during good and rough times. He is a tough bird and has always taken care of himself, while not taking kindly to strangers. But he loves his buddy Jacob. It's fascinating with all the prodding that Jacob had done in recent months that George lets him do it. He's very protective. The instance when I "lost it" was while looking for a picture to put on our "Wanted" poster. I brought Jacob in with me and every time he would see a picture of George, he would point and start giggling. It hit me that Jacob loves George, too. So, I'll dedicate a post to our old friend George because he deserves attention every once in a while, too. We are glad to have him home, just in time for Christmas. Enjoy these old shots of our two children.










More pics from Breakfast with Santa

Elise and Bennett Parnell with Santa
Lila Parnell with Santa

Jack and Carter Raymond with Santa

Reece Richardson with Santa

Jack and Carter Raymond with Jacob

Bennett Parnell encounters Santa

Rare family photo

Nana and Jacob, who's still skeptical of the whole deal

Jacob playing with Toys for Tots toys

Parnell family photo

Saturday, December 19, 2009

The Moment of Truth

Today marked Jacob's second encounter with Santa Claus. It was the annual Breakfast with Santa in Beau Chene, our neighborhood. It's safe to say that this encounter did not go as smoothly as the one last year when Jacob was a mere infant. Noone was really surprised. I'll have more pictures of the event later; but thought I would start you all out with this.



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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

School Daze

Jacob's first semester of "school" is over. Mother's Morning Out wrapped up the fall/winter season with a kids Christmas party this morning. Jacob was decked out in his Christmas gear, fired up and ready to go!

He has really warmed up to his teachers and enjoyed his time there. He has missed a few days because of sickness and had a couple of "downer" days where he has cried for his Mommy but other than that, it's been great for him.

His teachers are good to him. They made him a couple of tree ornaments. Thank goodness for these as you all know what happened to many of our ornaments a couple weeks back!

Jacob has also honed his artistic skills some more. You may remember the pumpkin from Halloween. Well, check out the Christmas tree! If you look closely, you will notice the colors Jacob used in the first picture match the colors on his art below! This boy gets it!


This last picture is my favorite. It's grainy because it was taken by a cell phone. Our friend, David Parnell, was picking up his children when he looked in Jacobs room and surveyed the scene below.

If you can't tell, Jacob is reading a book to himself in the rocking chair. This is the first picture that I'm aware of inside of "school." It was actually taken this morning during the Christmas party. There is very little that will get in the way of Jacob and a good book.

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Birthday Wishes

A very special Happy Birthday today to Mommy! We will not reveal how old Mommy is considering she's the oldest of the bunch. Shhhhhhhh. Mommy had a great birthday; now you all get a treat...Jacob reading through one of his Christmas books.
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Monday, December 7, 2009

From Mullet to Man

Jacob, who has been spotted impersonating a homeless man recently (see above), was in dire need of his first haircut. You could really see his flowing hair was getting under his skin (see below).



Mommy to the rescue with a quick dash to the local Stadium Cuts. At first, Jacob did not enjoy this experience either.

But soon he calmed down...and came home a new man.



See how refreshed and polished he looks???
Just in time to impress Santa. I believe the two meet face to face the second time in a couple of weeks. Hopefully, his hair will not have grown back by then!

Sunday, December 6, 2009

An interesting weekend

Christmas 2009 is in full effect in the Brister household. I used to love putting up Christmas decorations as a youngster, but I don't know what's happened in my adult life. If there is one thing I HATE, it's putting up Christmas lights. I got the tree up with relative ease and then discovered approximately seven strands of our remaining lights were not working. This set me off on an hour-and-a-half, three store venture to find white lights (to go outside). I found them, got frustrated after a while and quit. Su has worked hard decorating everything else in the house so I offered to give Jacob his bath. Well, apparently while the bath water was running, THE TREE FELL!!! Oddly enough, noone heard it. After I got Jacob to bed, I made the gruesome discovery. Ten to 12 ornaments (the nice ones of course) were smashed into thousands of pieces. I got the tree back up after a struggle and IT FELL AGAIN!!! I now have it snugly secured and if it goes, the entire window seal goes. I am sure this will be funny one day but yesterday added up to be a horrific experience. The only thing I take solace in is that Jacob was nowhere near the tree. As you will see below, he loves it. The scary thing is that the tree fell right where he is standing in the picture below and where he and his Mommy are opening the present in the picture below that.

Sunday turned out to be a more fun or at least more normal day. Jacob and I went with David Parnell and the twins to do a little Christmas shopping to give their respective mothers a break. Of course, Suzanne does not know the meaning of "break" and she cleaned the entire house today. Thank you, Su, for making it so nice. When we got home, Jacob apparently still had mall fever because he kept pulling Mommy's shoes out of her closet and we caught him in the act trying one of her shoes on.